Have you ever tried to immerse a balloon in water?
You try hard with both hands, but what do you experience?
The balloon always comes back to the top.
It does not matter the color or texture of the balloon, it will always come back to the top.
The content of the balloon …
A similar thing happens when you release a balloon in the air…it floats away to the sky.
The air inside the balloon makes it rise to top
Everyone of us carry the potential in us to rise to the top
You are destined for the top…
You may experience set backs or disappointments .
Painful as it may be, never allow that to keep you down.
Never allow the confidence you have in yourself or in your God to slip away.
Tap into the strength within and rise to your full potential.
Stay strong, stay motivated, you are unstoppable!
We all have those people in our lives. The ones who are just really difficult to love. They might have an annoying habit that grates our nerves. Or maybe they have a negative attitude all the time, or are never respectful of our time or space. Whatever reason you have for considering that person difficult, here are a few tips on how to love them anyway.
Remember your own faults
None of us like to admit that we are probably difficult to love in some way. Maybe we have our own annoying habits that gets on other people’s nerves. We all have our “unloveable ” moments, so when you are in that situation with your difficult person, take a breath and remember that you have your own moments of difficulty.
Try to understand their back story
Everyone has a back story, no one became who they are today overnight. If your difficult person isn’t all that close to you, try to find out where they come from. Did they have a difficult childhood? Did they just go through a painful divorce? Do they suffer from a mental health condition? Knowing more about what you are dealing with can help you navigate the best way to love that person, through the difficulty.
Sometimes people do things that annoy us, and they never know about it, because we are too polite to say anything. If someone is doing something that is disrespectful or annoying, say something. It doesn’t have to be a fight, you can lovingly say “Listen, I love spending time with you, and I need you to know that when you do ______________ (insert annoying thing here) it really makes me feel disrespected”.
Make a choice
This sounds so simple, but often we don’t make the choice to love someone. We let them earn love, by being beneficial to us in some way, however love shouldn’t have to be earned. It is a gift best freely given. So in those moments of difficulty, take a moment and decide to love them anyway. Think about it, you want to be loved through your difficulty, so choose to love your difficult person through all the mess.